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\"Borabora\"<\/a>By Megan Douglas<\/em><\/p>\n

I have an extensive travel<\/strong><\/a> resume, ranging from Paris<\/strong><\/a> to Rarotonga to Vietnam, and in most cases I was also traveling with people who weren’t my significant other. I find that adding people onto any trip really enriches not only the trip, but my life. There are certain bonds that are created while traveling that can’t be reproduced in day-to-day living. Weathering the ups and downs of travel brings people closer together \u2013- if you’ve done your homework and planned ahead.<\/p>\n

Before leaving for a trip, especially with a group trip of 3 or more, I recommend getting the following questions answered in an open and honest discussion:<\/p>\n

1. Is this a vacation or are we traveling?<\/strong> Most people don’t make a distinction between traveling and vacationing, but I would argue this is one of the most important things to talk about before leaving. It lets everyone in the group know how you approach your trip and the mindset you have.<\/p>\n

Vacationing means that the main objective of your time away is rest and relaxation. Having fun or resting takes precedence over any time schedules. Activities can be swapped and switched at any time because you are on vacation, and on vacation, you do what you want and only what you want.<\/p>\n

Traveling means that the trip is an opportunity to see a part of the world or country that you haven’t before. Emphasis is put on sightseeing, experiencing the culture and keeping a schedule so that you can optimize your time at the location.<\/p>\n

Every trip I have been on has been a blending of these two mindsets. For example, on a 6-day stay in BoraBora<\/strong>, we decided before we left that our first two days were going to be vacation days. This meant that I was only going to do exactly what I wanted. Perhaps I would spend the day in my hotel<\/a><\/strong> room reading a book, regardless of the fact that outside was a beach. Remember, on vacation, what you want rules the day. If the people you are with agree on the day’s activity, great, but if not you shouldn\u2019t feel pressured to do what they want you to do. Conversely, if it’s a traveling day and you’ve agreed to it, don’t be surprised if people get upset if you want to sit around a caf\u00e9 all day. Traveling days are all about doing what was expected and agreed to.<\/p>\n

Like I said, setting these expectations up front can be one of the most important things you can do. If you are traveling with a large group, don’t be afraid to split off into a smaller group with similar interests. There is no rule that the group needs to agree on everything.<\/p>\n

2. What is your budget?<\/strong> Yep, I said it, you should talk about money even though it’s not considered polite. When going on a trip with friends, there are likely to be large variances in the amount of money available for expenses. Find out how people want to spend their money. Personally, I don’t like to spend money on food when I am away from home. For example, when I was in New Zealand<\/strong><\/a>, I shopped at grocery stores and cooked for myself. I saved my money for activities like sea kayaking in Doubtful Sound<\/strong> or climbing the Fox glacier<\/strong>. My brother values culinary expertise and therefore doesn’t mind putting some money into getting a good meal. Since we knew this about each other, when we were in Australia<\/strong><\/a> together, there were no hard feelings when we split up for meals.<\/p>\n

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Of course, there are also people who bring enough money to splurge on everything when they travel<\/a><\/strong>. Be honest about the kind of spender you are. Opening up this dialogue with your trip mates will help set expectations and allow you to plan for each style before leaving. In addition, be clear about what expenses are going to be shared. My rule of thumb is that if you are in the rental car<\/a><\/strong>, at the dinner, or on the excursion, expect that you are paying for your portion. Another rule of thumb is that a couple with one other person doesn\u2019t mean expenses are divided into two. Three people means the expense is divided by three.<\/p>\n

3. Are we checking luggage?<\/strong> This may seem like a small issue,
\nespecially if you are someone who always checks luggage. However, if
\nyou are someone who never checks luggage and took the time to pack
\nlight so that you could get off the plane and go, it can be a larger
\nissue. With airlines<\/a><\/strong> experiencing more delays and issues with luggage,
\nfinding out that you now have to wait while others get their luggage
\ncan start the trip off on a sour note. The key here is just to set
\nexpectations. Everyone doesn’t have to do that same thing (especially
\nin larger groups) but for a smaller group, it’s nice when everyone is on
\nthe same page about this issue. If I were the only one who was going to
\ncarry on baggage, I would be just as happyto check it if I knew that I
\nwould have to wait for another group member anyway. This tip doesn\u2019t
\nmean that everyone has to do that same thing, but it’s useful to at
\nleast talk about the issue before leaving.<\/p>\n

4. What is your \u2018must do\u2019 on this trip?<\/strong> I went to London<\/strong><\/a>
\non spring break with a friend from college and a friend of hers from
\nher old neighborhood. It was my first trip to London, and I am a casual
\ntraveler, so I just went with the flow. That was not the case for her
\nfriend whom I’ll call Chris. Chris was not going to be happy without a
\ntrip to Stonehenge. If you’ve been to London, you know that Stonehenge
\nisn’t really near much of anything else and takes several hours to get
\nto. It really took some juggling of our limited schedule to make it
\nwork to see Stonehenge. Askingthe group the question of what people
\nmust do on the trip before you leave allows you to properly plan for
\nthose excursions.<\/p>\n

The overall key to\u00a0<\/strong> group travel is communication \u2013- and like voting
\nin Chicago, it should be done early and often. In addition, it should
\nbe done as honestly as possible for maximum enjoyment.<\/p>\n

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